Mikveh Day

Ellery's baptism. Such a mixed bag of emotions. Excitement, nervousness (we performed a little musical number that turned out just fine), concern (does she really know what it means), apprehensive (wishing I could be a part of the ritual), comfort (in the tradition of it all.)

After, we had people over. Salad bar and red velvet bundt cake.

It was a busy and draining day for me. But it was for Ellery so it was worth it. She was so happy. I just hope that she doesn't forget that Christianity is for unifying God's children and for transcending mortal boundaries for girls as much as it is for boys. Sex segregation in education, administration and service/leadership will end someday in my church--I just wish it would have already happened for my daughter's generation. Oh well, all I can do is make sure my home is an integrated home, teaching that although bodily experience may be different, it does not justify exclusion of one sex or another. Male empowerment does not need to come at the expense of female exclusion. Men aren't punished for Adam's transgression--why are we still punishing women for Eve's? Ellery, may you grow to never be excluded from any circle, any office, any boardroom, any altar, any service opportunity. I love you.